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cheer, Christmas, Daylight Saving Time, decorations, grinch, Jesus, Scrooge
As November rolls around, Americans all start thinking about turkey.
I start thinking about turkey too, sort of. But the turkey I’m thinking about is the one I’m going to stuff and eat for Christmas.
There are many, many reasons that I love living in Canada. Among them are universal healthcare, clean air (up here in the North, anyway), and Thanksgiving in early October. Why, you ask, am I so happy to celebrate this holiday a month and a half earlier than my red, white and blue neighbours? Simple. As soon as the pumpkins have shrivelled up and I’ve sported my Remembrance Day poppy for two weeks, I start seeing lights.
Christmas lights.
One of my favourite things in life is dragging the Christmas decoration boxes out of the closet and spending a week leisurely decorating my house. I got bit by the bug two Saturdays ago, and on this past Sunday, I was finished. I sat back with a glass of egg nog, and basked in the glorious Christmas-y cheer.
Yeah, yeah, Scrooges, I know you all think that Christmas decorating should be done no earlier than December 1st. But I reject that nonsense and offer you a short list of reasons why Christmas decorating in November is not only appropriate, but why it’s good for your health.
1) Daylight Saving Time
This ludicrous event should actually be called “Daylight Wasting Time”. It gets dark at 4:00 now. 4:00. In the afternoon. And it’s dark at 7:00 AM. So for those of you who have to travel to and from work, you are now doing BOTH in the dark. Yep. Sure sounds like we’re saving daylight to me! Not.
This terrible blight on humanity causes a serious case of the blahs, decreases productivity, and leaves everyone in an all around crappy mood for months and months and months. I don’t know about the rest of you, but I’m not going to put up with that. I have things to do, and I don’t have the time or inclination to just mope around my house all day long.
And what better way to combat the blues than by brightening up your house with Christmas decorations! Sparkle and shine, red, gold and green ornaments, lights, tinsel, greenery… I dare you to be all “humbug” when you’re surrounded by such beautiful, pretty things. It’s 3:00 in the afternoon and I’ve had the Christmas lights on for over an hour now, and they are serving their purpose very nicely. I feel great!
2) Spreading Good Tidings of Cheer
Okay, if I’m being honest, then I have to tell you that it’s pretty pathetic to think we all need a special date on the calendar to make us more friendly to each other. As even Scrooge would tell you, we should keep Christmas in our hearts ALL THE YEAR. Kindness, charity, good will and love should not be exclusive to November and December. But the sad fact is, many of us (even myself on occasion) need some help when it comes to being nice.
The Christmas Spirit is not just a myth. When people feel good, they act better. That’s human nature. If you can’t crack a smile while walking down a snowy sidewalk, Christmas lights glowing in the shop windows, decorations sparkling brightly, then something’s wrong with you. Simple as that.
So when people start crabbing about how early the stores put up/out their decorations, yammering about the commercialization of this blessed holiday, I always like to counter with the positives. Sure, maybe the stores are just out to pick your pocket. But if ushering in the most wonderful time of the year early makes people smile and puts them in the mood to be nicer to one another? What’s so wrong with that? Not to mention that the name “Christmas” alone gets people talking about our Lord. And if you have a problem with THAT, then I’m probably going to have a problem with you.
3) Thankfulness and Awareness
You’d think the holiday which best promotes a feeling of being thankful would be Thanksgiving. It’s right there in the name. But I don’t really think that’s true. For one thing, the day is different depending on where you go. In America, it’s the third Thursday in November. In Canada, it’s the second Monday of October. Each date reflecting the harvest season in its country. So I always kind of felt like Thanksgiving is more of an idea of a celebration rather than an actual one. Which is fine! Jesus wasn’t really born in December, yet we still celebrate Him then. But I find that it’s harder to come together when you’ve got a holiday being celebrated at two totally different times.
And just what are we celebrating? Now, I’m not going to be a hypocrite and slam Thanksgiving the way others slam early Christmas time, but it can be difficult to ignore the fact that the Native Americans got shafted in a major way by our beloved ancestor Pilgrims. Nothing says “I’m thankful” more than turning around and stealing someone’s land, right? Sorry, sorry, I’m not going to go there. (Hope you all have a very happy Thanksgiving on Thursday!)
But the fact is, Thanksgiving is just kind of THERE. There’s not a huge build-up to it like there is to Christmas, and all in all, I feel like there’s just less to celebrate. I can’t relate to it the way I do to Christmas.
When the Christmas season rolls around, THAT is when I start feeling truly thankful. I’m more aware of what others don’t have, and I’m more thankful for what I do. The thought of my Lord giving Himself to us when we certainly don’t deserve Him is humbling, to say the least. God Himself appearing in mortal form to save a bunch of worthless sinners? That should make you thankful.
We give gifts at Christmas because of the gift we were given. We love each other enough to talk and celebrate and give and receive, all the while remembering Who made all of that possible for us. “Jesus is the Reason For the Season” isn’t just a cutesy tagline slapped on a day off of work.
So to anyone who is a Gloomy Gus over Christmases that start in November, I say focus on the positives and reject the rest. There are always going to be people who abuse, twist and bastardize what’s good in life. But when you find a rotten apple in the barrel, you don’t leave it there and let it spoil the good ones. You toss it out and get on with your life.
Christmas is a time for remembering, celebrating, and being kind to one another. And if like me, having your decorations up before America starts eating turkey makes you happy and helps you be a better person for a little while, then I say why the heck not? Brighten up your home! Liven up your life! Unburden your heart for a few weeks and think more about others than yourself. Be caught up in the spirit of Christmas. Reflect Jesus, the namesake of my favourite holiday. Remember that God is concerned with our mind and heart, not our flesh. Doing someone a kindness is even more important than giving them a material gift. God never asked us to sacrifice animals to Him. He wants us to give of ourselves. Give up your pride, tramp down your ego. GIVE. Not from your purse, but from your heart.
That’s what Scrooge learned. That the power of Christmas isn’t what’s found inside those pretty packages, all wrapped up with bows and ribbons. It isn’t found in the decorations we hang to brighten our houses. No, the power of Christmas is found in WHY we want to hang them, and WHY we want to give them in the first place.
Our mental health is just as important as our physical health, and Christmas is the only holiday which I think takes care of both. Truly the most wonderful time of the year.
Dan Antion said:
Given the way you celebrate Christmas Wendy, I think you can start any time you want. As long as we remember what we are celebrating, then we should keep the spirit in our heart all year long. Merry Christmas!
Wendy Brydge said:
Thanks, Dan, and amen to what you said. Merry Christmas to you too!
fpdorchak said:
As you well know I do not follow traditional religion—but I do love Christmas for all the other reasons you cite! In fact, we put up our “stuff” the day after our American Thanksgiving (today!) and I always get excited about it! And…
*I love the pretty lights*…. (read this using a Homer SImpson voice)
And let’s touch on the whole “Thanksgiving” thing: yes there were atrocities committed about this holiday…and some others America and the world celebrates…wars and violence, mainly. But, as you said, get past them, like the rotten apples analogy you also cited. People make mistakes…but people also,make amends. Try to improve themselves and grow. So, however some holiday or celebration started…the fact that it turned into a beautiful and joyful celebration should be focused upon. If you continue to focus on the past—in a negative way—you never move on and grow. GROW. Don’t continue to give the past energy and “power.” Learn from our mistakes, forgive yourselves, and move on.
Beautiful post, Wendy! Thanks for sharing your personal space with us—and I always did wonder what your tree and surrounds looked like! :-]
To all, I always wish love and peace…however YOU celebrate it!
Wendy Brydge said:
The day after Thanksgiving, Frank? I think I could live with that if I were south of the border! And you’re absolutely right — learn from the past and then let it go. Live today while planning for the future. And everyone, please, try to be nice, not just at Christmas time, but ALL the time! Thanks for the nice compliment, Frank, and Merry Christmas! :)
fpdorchak said:
You’re most welcome! :-]
AmyRose🌹 said:
OK!!! Wendy, I’ve had some time to read through this and was stunned to see only a few likes and just a few comments. You are so well versed, and I LOVE LOVE LOVE how your courage and humor shine through. I laughed out loud when you claimed if someone has issues or trouble with Jesus then you would have trouble with them. Tee hee …. You tell them!!
I have such a huge and diverse audience over at Petals that Jesus taught me (no joke) how to word my posts, my sayings, in a way that can be interpreted in such a way according to where that person is coming from. I honestly don’t know how I do it, because the words I usually hear truly are originally not from me. There are some posts I do not mess around and say it like it is. My MAIN message is LOVE.
Now for daylight savings time … I’m right there with you!! What ignoramous decided to mess with time? Really?
This year for Christmas I have played Santa for one of my nieces who did not have the monies to buy gifts for her children. OH did that feel good! I also have begun sending my Mother LOTS of gifts and flowers because she almost died and I just want to show her how much I LOVE her. I am not able to put decorations up, which saddens me greatly because Christmas is my favorite time of year. We take care of special needs cats who would ruin the decorations. In fact, one year, one of our cats knocked over our tree and we said … that’s IT! No more!!! So no lights and glitter and tree and decorations. So, when I come across a post like this, OH how I cherish it. Thank you!!!
In closing, I’m going to come right and say to you and your family MERRY Christmas versus Happy Holidays. This world is doing its best to take Christ out of Christmas and isn’t that the point after all?
I really enjoyed this and I am so glad I am following you. God has given me so many Gifts lately that my head is spinning. I have had a very tough year and am dealing with some very tough situations. God has been sending my way SO many believers that I sit in my chair stunned. I’m not talking one or two … oh no! Lately, I’ve had more people say to me GOD bless you versus Bless you which I normally say due to again the vast array of people that come to Petals. Do you know how good it feels to say GOD Bless you? I’ve been actually saying God Bless you to everyone who passes my path in 3D life, so fed up with “it being not politically correct to say God bless you.” I’m done. Finished. If saying God offends someone, too bad. I have every right to say God for God and God alone is the reason I do what I do and not only that, God is the reason I am alive today.
Whew. OH MY GOSH!! You got a book from me. I hope you enjoyed. Hehehehehe Now you know how chatty I can be. Dan does. ;) With Love and ((HUGS))) Amy <3
Wendy Brydge said:
Amy, you can write me a book anytime! I enjoyed this very much indeed! Thank you for taking the time to leave such a thoughtful comment and for your kind words. That’s wonderful that you’ve been able to do such nice things for your family and those around you. I’ve been without my mom for a long time now, but not a day goes by when I don’t think of how much I wish I could do things with/for her, get her little gifts, and just tell her that I love her. You’re blessed to still have your mom with you and while I’m very sorry to hear that you came close to losing her, praise the Lord that you didn’t.
It’s a shame that you aren’t able to enjoy decorations in your home, but your reason for passing on them is a commendable one. It’s clear that you love your pets very much, and that makes you a special kind of person, one that I’m happy to have met. And I like the idea of being able to share my decorations with others who will enjoy them too!
So yes, a very MERRY CHRISTMAS to you and yours, and GOD BLESS you all. Two phrases that should never be stifled or discouraged. If someone is offended by it? Well, I’ll certainly still be nice to them, but I don’t think we need “friends” like that anyway. :)
AmyRose🌹 said:
Wendy, tomorrow this conversation will continue. Ive had a LONG day and am headed for bed. I only have conversations with a scattering of people as I am doing here, for the sheer amount of people I do talk to is staggering. LOL It is such a pleasure to interact with you. Honesty and forthrightness I truly respect and understand … and you have both! Good night, my new sister. T’is wondrous indeed that this Season of Miracles is bringing to me so many “sisters and brothers” that seemingly are popping out of the woodwork!!! I am so grateful to God for these Gifts I am finding under my Tree of Lights. <3 <3 <3
Wendy Brydge said:
I wish you pleasant dreams, Amy. Hope to enjoy more conversations with you in the future!
AmyRose🌹 said:
Hi, Wendy!! I just finished up my post for tomorrow, another long read with 8 images. This is not my norm, and I am truly surprised that I am doing this. Yet this is what my Heart is guiding me to do!! I had a Christmas day yesterday while on my walk! Angels always surprise me especially when I pray for encouragement or signs of HOPE. Not only did I find treasures, but something totally unexpected happened that had my jaw dropping, my hands shaking as I desperately attempted to get clear shots off, and me left with a total sense of awe of how powerful LOVE is, and how faithful God is! I may have to sacrifice a lot in my Life to the extent most people don’t know about because I really don’t talk about those things so I do my best to find JOY wherever possible. What I do talk about is how I cope with Life by focusing on Love and walking by Faith. The last post you saw you got blasted with Joy and oh yes I was flying high that day. This next post is about living through the challenges Life throws and the choices we can make. It still is upbeat and fun, yet, I make no attempt to hide the fact that yes I do struggle, yes I do cry, and yes there are times I just don’t know what to do. Through all that, and more, I end up smiling and stay that way. I find Christmas wherever I can, just not on Dec. 25th. I look forward to the time of my Life when I can again decorate when my babies are passed. I will have huge holes in my Heart believe me, for the price for my freedom is a high one indeed. The Love these guys give me bar none, surpasses any that a human can give, if not more so. I know their days are numbered, as are ours, so despite the hardships and all the work involved, my attitude is one of Love and JOY, and to be in the moment as much as possible to appreciate those around me now. Our tomorrows are not promised … so I live as much as I can each day.
Now off I go to catch up on some things around here and to rest. I was supposed to go to my yoga class this morning, but the walk of 7 miles yesterday was enough. I think Monday morning I will go to my yoga class. Today I do this, that and the other and rest a bit. This is vital too … be kind to me. (smile)
It’s been so wonderful to talk to you!! God Bless you!!! <3
Wendy Brydge said:
Amy, I’m very much looking forward to tomorrow’s post. It’s good to talk about trials and hardships too, not just all of the joys we experience. I think it’s a good reminder for us all that others suffer too, and often times, much more than we do. And in seeing the struggle that others face, perhaps it can make us a bit more thankful for what’s going on in our own lives. It’s also good to be reminded that with Jesus, we can overcome anything!
I have a rather long post going up in the morning myself (Bible-related), and I hope that maybe someone will get at least a little something out of it. While I very much enjoy covering an incredibly diverse range of topics on my blog, it’s always been important to me that I don’t neglect sharing the Gospel in whatever way I can.
And yes, I think 7 miles entitles you to a break on the yoga for today! God bless and thank you for sharing all these thoughts with me!
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